The union of husband and wife in heart, body, and mind is intended by God for their mutual joy; for the help and comfort given one another in prosperity and adversity; and, when it is God’s will, for the procreation of children and their nurture in the knowledge and love of the Lord. Therefore marriage is not to be entered into unadvisedly or lightly, but reverently, deliberately, and in accordance with the purposes for which it was instituted by God” (Book of Common Prayer 423).
When a man and woman who want to be married come to St. Mark’s, we want to remind them that they are taking Christian Vows. These vows involve a Christian lifestyle. For example, part of the ceremony includes the words “forsaking all others” meaning you will always be faithful to your husband or wife and will have no other intimate relationships outside of the marriage, “till death do us part” meaning a lifetime commitment to this promise. A Christian marriage is one in which a husband and wife pray for each other and their children, and are members of a Christian community. Most importantly, a marriage is a relationship that includes Jesus Christ, who is “the tie that binds.”
It is important to know that only rare exceptions are made for couples who are not members of St. Mark’s. If you are looking for a church home and a place to get married, please visit us on Sunday mornings to see if St. Mark’s could be your church home. We would love for you to join our church, and for it to be a place where your Christian marriage can be nourished.
When couples are desirous of a Christian marriage, the clergy will do everything in their power to help the couple achieve a strong marriage. This involves pre-marital counseling, some reading, and much prayer. If, on the other hand, a couple does not intend to honor Christian vows, or move in a Christian direction, then it would be hypocrisy for the clergy to bless such a union. When a vow is taken, a vow must be kept!
Download our wedding packet for all the information and required forms for weddings at St. Mark's.
Notify one of the clergy or phone the parish office to inform of a death in the family. Our parish clergy will meet with the family to arrange for a funeral and for bereavement counseling, and to provide information about our columbarium.